<![CDATA[What's On! Mission Magazine & Online - In the Community]]>Sun, 06 Jul 2025 13:13:06 -0700Weebly<![CDATA[Mission Community Foundation Awards Nearly $100,000 to Local Organizations in 2025 Grant Cycle 1]]>Tue, 01 Jul 2025 01:29:18 GMThttp://whatsonmission.ca/in-the-community/mission-community-foundation-awards-nearly-100000-to-local-organizations-in-2025-grant-cycle-1Picture
The Mission Community Foundation is pleased to announce the distribution of $99,935 in grant funding to 21 local community groups as part of its 2025 Grant Cycle 1. These grants support community-based initiatives that reflect the Foundation’s ongoing mission to improve the quality of life in Mission and the surrounding areas.

Each year, the Foundation holds two grant cycles, one in the spring and one in the fall, providing funding opportunities that help make a difference in areas such as food security, literacy, athletics, education, health, arts and culture, social services, and many more.

“We are proud to support these 21 organizations, each of which plays a vital role in addressing local needs and strengthening our community,” said Shelley Carter, Chair of the MCF Board. “This funding reflects the generosity of our donors, and we are deeply grateful for the individuals, families, and businesses who continue to invest in Mission’s future through the Foundation.”

The next grant cycle (Grant Cycle 2) will take place in Fall 2025, and the Foundation encourages eligible community groups to apply for funding to support their initiatives.

The Foundation’s grant program is made possible through the stewardship of endowment funds and the ongoing support of donors who believe in building a stronger, more connected Mission.

For more information about the Foundation, grant guidelines or how to make a donation, please visit missioncommunityfoundation.org

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<![CDATA[Ami's Totally BOOK-ish Review: "Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine" by Gail Honeyman]]>Mon, 30 Jun 2025 15:00:00 GMThttp://whatsonmission.ca/in-the-community/amis-totally-book-ish-review-eleanor-oliphant-is-completely-fine-by-gail-honeymanPicture
It was a lazy summer day and I was on vacation. There are two things my family does on holiday: eat a ton and find the local bookstore!
 
After the eating was done, the rest and relaxation with a book began! 
 
I lay out on my lounge chair and picked up Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman. I loved the title. I loved the cover. I was suspicious if I would love the book (bookseller’s hint: books with the best covers often have the worst plots).
 
But as I dove into the story of quirky and eccentric Eleanor Oliphant, I fell head over heels for this character and her story. 
 
There is psychology, neurodiversity, trauma, humour and most importantly, friendship. I read it in one sunny sitting, and I hope you do too (that is, if we get any sun… welcome to West Coast Spring).
 
Life for Eleanor has always been fine, and she is fine with fine. 
 
Life is predictable, if not a little lonely. Sure, she doesn’t always know how to act in social situations. Sure, she doesn’t always think before she speaks. But she does always have a plan for the weekend: pizza, vodka (lots), and phone chats with Mummy.
 
But then one day everything is thrown up in the air. When Sammy, an elderly gentleman, falls on the sidewalk, Eleanor, along with Raymond (the clumsy and awkward IT guy from her office) join forces to help him. 
 
Up to this point Raymond has been a stranger she works with. He doesn’t make the best impression, and impressions are important to Eleanor. He’s a bit sloppy - a bit unhygienic - but as Sammy, Eleanor, and Raymond begin to learn about each other, a reluctant friendship develops.  
 
For Eleanor, suddenly life doesn’t seem that predictable anymore. Raymond and Sammy accept her, maybe even like her. And for Raymond and Sammy, friendship seems to be changing them as well.
 
Could friendship really be in the cards for someone like them? And if Eleanor opens her heart to other people, will it heal what’s been broken inside her for far too long?
 
This is a warm, uplifting story that is a cross between The Maid (Nita Prose) and A Man Called Ove (Fredrik Backman), with a side of weird and wit thrown in. 
 
One of my favourites, it’s on the shelf now at Totally Book-ish.

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<![CDATA[Environmentally-Friendly Ways to Dispose of Items]]>Sat, 28 Jun 2025 20:30:00 GMThttp://whatsonmission.ca/in-the-community/environmentally-friendly-ways-to-dispose-of-itemsWhen you’re preparing your home for a sale, you should declutter as much as possible. That makes your property appear neater and more spacious to buyers. You want buyers to have the ability to envision them and their stuff in the home and not be distracted by your train or doll collection.

However, that doesn’t mean you have to toss items in the trash or haul them to a landfill site. There are many other, more environmentally friendly ways to dispose of unwanted items.

One popular technique is to sell them online. Even if you think an old chair isn’t worth much, as the saying goes, “One person’s junk is another’s treasure.” There are several websites for selling items quickly, including Facebook Marketplace. In fact, you can list items today and potentially sell them this week. Just be sure to set prices low, as people tend to look for deals on these sites. Also note that you accept cash only, and, if the ad is up, it's available.


You can also give away items. Post items you’re willing to part with for free on your community’s Facebook page. You can also pin a poster to an announcements board in your neighbourhood.

Donating items is also an option. There are many charities that accept items such as clothes, furnishings, tools, kitchenware, and sports equipment. I personally love to donate to "The Cottage" on First Ave the proceeds that they collect go to the Fraser Valley Health Care Foundation and Community and is run by volunteers.
Finally, an old-fashioned garage or yard sale can be effective. Place signs throughout your neighbourhood announcing the sale. Start your sale early. Many hardcore garage sale lovers will be there as soon as you open, even if that’s 7am!

Want more advice on how to prepare your home for sale? Call me 604-615-6446
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<![CDATA[How to Stop People-Pleasing Without Feeling Guilty]]>Thu, 26 Jun 2025 20:30:00 GMThttp://whatsonmission.ca/in-the-community/how-to-stop-people-pleasing-without-feeling-guiltyHave you ever said “yes” when you really wanted to say “no”? Or found yourself rearranging your schedule to accommodate others, even at the expense of your own well-being? If so, you’re not alone. People-pleasing is a common pattern rooted in a desire for connection, but over time, it can lead to exhaustion, resentment, and even burnout.

People-pleasing often begins as a learned response, shaped by early experiences, social conditioning, and fears of conflict or rejection. It’s often driven by:
  • Childhood conditioning – If love or approval felt conditional growing up, you may have learned to prioritize others’ needs to feel safe or accepted.
  • Fear of conflict – Avoiding disagreements, even when it means sacrificing your own needs.
  • Seeking validation – Feeling like your worth depends on making others happy.
  • Perfectionism – Believing that if you do enough for others, you’ll finally be "good enough."

While these behaviors may have helped you navigate relationships in the past, they can keep you stuck in cycles of overgiving, self-neglect, and burnout.

Signs You Might Be a People-Pleaser
Not sure if you fall into people-pleasing patterns? Here are some common signs:
  • You feel guilty or anxious when saying no.
  • You suppress your own needs to keep others happy.
  • You constantly seek external validation.
  • You avoid conflict at all costs, even when something bothers you.

If any of these sound familiar, it’s time to start setting boundaries that protect your well-being.

How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty 
Recognize That Boundaries Are Healthy
A big reason people struggle to set boundaries is the belief that it’s selfish. In reality, boundaries create healthier relationships by fostering mutual respect and preventing resentment. Instead of thinking, “I’m being selfish by saying no, ”reframe it as “Honoring my limits allows me to show up fully and authentically.”

Start Small with Simple Boundaries
If setting boundaries feels overwhelming, begin with low-stakes situations. Decline small requests, reschedule plans when needed, or practice saying, “I can’t commit to that right now.” These small actions reinforce that your needs matter, too.

Use Clear, Compassionate Communication
You don’t need to over-explain or apologize excessively when setting a boundary. Keep it simple:
✔ Instead of: “I’m really sorry, but I don’t think I can help with that.”
✔ Try: “I won’t be able to, but I hope you find the support you need!”

Assertive communication allows you to honor your limits while maintaining kindness and respect.

Expect Some Discomfort—but Don’t Let It Stop You
If you’ve been a lifelong people-pleaser, setting boundaries may feel uncomfortable at first. That discomfort doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong—it means you’re growing. Take a deep breath, remind yourself why this is important, and trust that the guilt will fade as you practice.

Prioritize Your Own Needs Without Apology
You deserve rest. You deserve joy. You deserve to take up space.

Instead of waiting for permission to prioritize yourself, give yourself that permission. The people who truly care about you will respect your boundaries—not resent them.

Breaking Free from People-Pleasing for Good
Stepping away from people-pleasing is a powerful act of self-care. By setting boundaries with confidence and self-compassion, you reclaim your time, energy, and emotional well-being. If guilt creeps in, remind yourself: Taking care of myself isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.
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<![CDATA[Supporting Local]]>Wed, 25 Jun 2025 13:30:00 GMThttp://whatsonmission.ca/in-the-community/supporting-localAs small business owners here in Mission, we’re not a giant corporate powerhouse. But we know the power of community. While we can’t change the world alone, together, we can make a meaningful impact by supporting our community, our customers, and, broadly speaking, a sustainable garment industry. While we can’t predict the economic future of our community, we believe in taking small, meaningful steps to make a positive impact—and maybe offer a little insight or inspiration for others to do the same.

First & Foremost - Shop Local
Supporting local businesses—especially small ones—is a great way to stretch the impact of your dollar within your community. Those businesses (ours included) can then use that support to grow, create local jobs, and contribute to community groups and charities in the area. Of course, not every product in the world can be found in Mission, but every small effort to shop local makes a big difference.

Question Where Your Products Come From
Quality products and services often come with a higher price tag—not because small businesses are trying to take advantage, but because there’s a real cost to producing goods responsibly and ethically. In the garment industry, that means fair pay, humane working conditions and hours, and responsibly sourced fabrics.

We proudly partner with a wide range of small to medium-sized companies here in Canada. Some of our products are made locally in Canada, while others come from Europe and Asia. Wherever they’re made, we prioritize quality materials, consistent craftsmanship, and open, transparent relationships with our suppliers.

Cost Per Wear - The Men’s Wear Equation
One way we like to think about the value of clothing is by calculating its ‘cost per wear.’ It’s a pretty simple idea—take the price of the item and divide it by how many times you can wear it before it needs to be replaced. For example, a $50 shirt that lasts through 100 wears comes out to $0.50 per wear. On the other hand, a $5 shirt that falls apart after the first wash costs $5 per wear! While quality garments might seem pricier up front, they often end up being more economical over time, especially when compared to fast fashion pieces. It’s a fun perspective that shows how investing in well-made items can really pay off.

Though it’s not a typical corporate approach, we take great pride in aligning our business practices with our values. Our focus is on providing quality products and services to our community, while continually learning and growing within the evolving garment industry. We’re always happy to share what we’ve learned and exchange ideas with others navigating this space.

We look forward to seeing you soon,

Lucas & Lavi
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